r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.yeah he traumatized literal children who had lost their father, but somehow he is the victim. the mental gymnastics is astounding.. OP you're NTA btw, but if my husband did this, and if i were struggling with the idea that he had done it maliciously (as you said in another comment).. i'd be rethinking the type of person that i married. these are all pretty big red flags, and at a holiday ...AITA for telling my MIL thats it’s not her money? Not the A-hole. Throwaway, I 33 (F) and my husband, Bill (34M) eloped the day after our college graduation. We had only been dating for about a year and a half then and I had only spoken to his family over the phone. We were young and dumb but this isn’t a decision I regret.AITA for telling my husband to not lend money to flatmates? Not the A-hole. My husband (34M) and I (29M) live in a shared house, because we just moved countries and that's the only option available to us at the moment. We have a flatmate (31F) with whom we never had any problems, she's even became a friend, and the relationship with her is ...AITA for telling my husband everything, even when my children ask me not to. I (46F) tell my husband (57M) everything. We prefer to be open and honest with each other and enjoy this aspect of our relationship. This includes things our four children tell us individually, as we care about our children and want to help them together as partners.My daughter was born when I was 18. My husband was also 18. Yes, we were young and she was not planned so that's why the timing seems weird on that. We do have another little girl now and have recently moved into our first house! Thank you to everyone for making this something so sensational!So, Anyways! My husband and I took 2 weeks off work to go visit some places out of the country - tourism in other words. Thing is I was the one who saved up for and arranged for the trip (my husband was responsible for booking the tickets). My husband's mom wanted to come along and threw temper tantrums when I said no. She called, texted, sent ...Not ils but husband. AITA. So I work night shift in a hospital. I work 7-730. I get off at 730am. Then have a 45 min drive home. I usually work later on Mondays and don't get home until 930am Tuesday. My husband watches our kids the 1-2 days a week I work. Last night I was sick and left work early and got home at 7am.But air frying fish may not actually be better because it raises the level of "cholesterol oxidation products" (COPs). One way to lower the amount of COPs when you air fry fish is to add fresh parsley, chives, or a mixture of the two. Research shows these herbs act as antioxidants to reduce the COPs in air-fried foods.When me (f40) and my husband (m39) joined finances, my husband had a more stable salary and I was still studying but working part time. So we decided that we will try to live on his salary leaving mine for university fees, and other extras. He considered this as investment, hoping that I would finish my studies and get a much better salary on a full …My husband and I do Easter baskets for one another, and this year he gave me mine early since I’ll be gone. In the basket was the usual, dark choco bunny, Starburst jelly beans, and then some Swiftie stuff from Etsy, a fidget toy, and really surprisingly he got me three full bottles of perfumes that were on my wish list.After we got married, I moved into his on a temporary basis while we sold mine, and then we used the money from mine and a loan on the value of his to buy a new house together - after which we sold his and used that money to pay off the loan. I don't remember ever asking to see the deed for my husband's house before I married him either.My relationship with my step-mom drastically improved once my aunt blew up at her and my dad to stop trying to force a motherly relationship because I still have my mom and them forcing it wasn’t going to do anything but push me away. I was 14 then. I’m 29 now and we have an amazing relationship. She’s this weird blend of aunt/mom and whenever I get …ADMIN MOD. AITA - for telling my husband that I no longer want my son around "The Team"? Not the A-hole. First of all, and to get out the way, my husband and I got married 2 years ago. I have a 7 year old from a previous marriage. We moved to his hometown some months ago and started spending more time with his family.Now you can live the life you want without me controlling you." I am at my mother's and have told him not to contact me unless it's about our child. My best friend is telling me I need to work it out because my husband is truly a great guy and I know this isn't him. But I can't trust him anymore. AITA?NTA. I am mad for you. What a shitty bunch of in-laws, and I include your husband in that. Your kid, HIS kid, THEIR grandkid depends on you for food, so besides being a major fuckwattle to you, they're hurting their own blood as well, for apparently no reason whatsoever. It's time for your husband to stand up for you.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my husband his “fragile masculinity” is costing us money? Back in late 2021, my husband Craig (M46) and I (F44) welcomed …My husband suddenly started "recalling" what happened that night and basically started lying about driving me to the hospital, waiting and feeling stressed out and standing on his feet for so long without food or even water. I was confused I said no! none of this was true, none of this happened in fact, he was watching a game when I went into labor and I …I love my husband to pieces but I am so sick of being the adult in this. 5 months ago a huge fight happened mistakes where said and done the result now we are separated. We were working it out it just took me a little longer to be ready to talk because I had to figure out money (stay at home/working mom) my son and still sort through my feelings.I’d be a little salty if my husband voluntarily took on a second job, likely dropping some responsibility on me while he was at it, and spent his time elsewhere not because we needed the money to survive but because he liked fancy things. At that point I’d feel like I was just there to pay my half of the bills so he could divert more money to his amazon …Eurasia Mining PLCShs News: This is the News-site for the company Eurasia Mining PLCShs on Markets Insider Indices Commodities Currencies StocksInheritance isn't marital property. But you need to be straight up with him and tell him he isn't going to have access to it. You're gonna have to have enough spine to put your foot down. If he doesn't like it let him leave because it doesn't sound like he's contributing anything. Edit.Husband should really back tf off of volunteering Lily to be his son's emotional support animal. Pretty dehumanizing to be reduced to the "cure" for the son's apathy, laziness and selfishness. She is her own person with her own wants and dreams, not the manic pixie dream girl who comes in to save a man from himself.AITAH For not giving my husband my "escape money" when I saw that we were financially struggling. I 34F have recently ran into a situation with my husband 37M and am curious about if I am the AH here or not. So me and my husband have been tother for 8 years, married for 7.Mansplaining - Wikipedia. 21 August 2013 - Mansplaining (a blend word of man and the informal form splaining of the gerund explaining) is a pejorative term meaning " (for a man) to comment on or explain something, to a woman, in a condescending, overconfident, and often inaccurate or oversimplified manner".AITA for telling my family that they never cared about my birthday before why should it matter now? ... As a wise man once probably said, the shit-apple doesn't fall far from the shit-tree, Randy. ... except my SD wouldn't let my mom get a job because he wanted a house wife and the only money my mom received was child support from my dad, which ...A few days later (because I did not want to ruin Mother's Day) I told my wife that I am tired of raising Harper, her real father needs to step up. I tired of it taking away time I get to spend with Emma. She said that Jennifer is her best friend and we need to be there for Harper. Now she is not speaking to me and sleeping in the guest bedroom.Jolly_Ad3178. AITA for letting my husband leave and ruining MIL's family photos? Not the A-hole. I (27F) have been married to my husband (29M) for 5 years. My husband has a big family, 4 sisters and a brother, and they are all very close. SILs visit MIL at least once a week and help out with things like house cleaning and gardening.I told my husband that we would be going to the mall and that we would be back late. When we got back home my husband greeted us and had ordered takeout. His sister was there as well already chowing down. My husband and I went to the kitchen to get something to drink while his sister talked to my kids.The situation that led me to write this post happened last Thursday, when my sister, her boyfriend and Tessa came to our place for dinner. They arrived around the same time my husband was leaving to pick Emily up from her ballet class. On his way there, he called me and said he'd gotten a text from my sister telling him to change Emily into her ...Tell your husband that he still has to pay 60% rent that you will put away for any repairs that come along that that way he still has extra money from the lower rent. If he refuses …r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.If you're interested in knowing what your husband's financial situation is, you can inspect his credit report, sometimes known as running a credit check. While you cannot simply ru...1.) Telling my husband he was being selfish by buying tickets to his favorite band during the week I was planning a vacation for us for my 30th birthday. 2.) I should just be happy he got me a ticket to come with him and “share the experience”. Help keep the sub engaging!AITA for keeping husband's money. Me and my husband work at the same company but different departments. We work same days and close to the same hours (Swing Shift) So a couple weeks ago my husband decided to pick up an extra shift on what is our normal off day. Not realizing that until 2:50 AM he didn't have a clean uniform to wear to work ...Nah you made an assumption it was wrong. Unless you specifically stated you would not have kids with him then he's not wrong to assume that's on the cards. If you were positive you were never going to have more kids I'm confused why you wouldn't have that conversation before marriage.Mansplaining - Wikipedia. 21 August 2013 - Mansplaining (a blend word of man and the informal form splaining of the gerund explaining) is a pejorative term meaning " (for a man) to comment on or explain something, to a woman, in a condescending, overconfident, and often inaccurate or oversimplified manner".My answer: NTA. ""My brother wants to cut me out of his life, his wife wants a divorce, and my husband is miserable, all because of something I said."". No, its because your brother is an asshole LIAR. He lied for her so she married him under false pretense and he lied about where he were.Keep your future men the h away from them. Yet another one where I wish I wasn't banned from aita, although my gut reaction to this post would likely have gotten me banned. What a horrible, horrible woman. When her kids go NC with her, she can look at this moment as to why that happened.Credit companies love you to owe them! I have excellent credit with no issue, and hardy ever get credit offers, but my husband (who had terrible credit before we met) gets multiple offers a week. I make more money than him, and the same company wanted to give me a 6k limit and give him a 12k limit. 🤷🏼♀️Welcome to Reddit Reads, your ultimate destination for the best Reddit stories on YouTube! Today, we’re bringing you an exciting collection of AITA stories (...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.AITAH For telling my husband that if he doesn’t like the way I parent his kid, he should give her to her alcoholic mother. I’m not someone who has ever wanted kids to start with. I knew I was unable to have children from a very young age due to a medical condition, and made peace with this long ago and it wasn’t difficult for me to.If they decided to get a loan from someone with an insane interest rate without telling you, that's on them. Your husband has already shown you he can't be trusted to pay anyone back, not even you. That's not a good husband. Keep your money away from him and don't let him make you feel bad. 16.AITA for not wanting to give up my college fund to pay for my younger brother's treatment. The treatment could possibly improve my brother's quality of life and or save his live altogether, and I can fund it, but I don't want to. As a result my dad and his wife think I'm TA. Help keep the sub engaging!r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.SSR Mining News: This is the News-site for the company SSR Mining on Markets Insider Indices Commodities Currencies StocksYou’re so disrespectful, selfish and evil. YTA. Divorcing him is the nicest thing you can do. Give him a chance to find someone who would love and value him. This cannot be real…. I (27f) have been with my husband for 8 years. We were high school sweet hearts and was even voted so in the yearbook.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my mom's husband I'm so glad he didn't get to name me? Not the A-hole. My mom and her husband are expecting a baby together. I'm 17F and was my mom's only child until she got pregnant. Her husband has no kids. So some context on this: My name is a bit of a sore issue with my mom.NTA. My husband is a history nerd. I point blank tell him my eyes are starting to glaze over if he goes on for more than a couple of minutes. I wouldn't stand it if he accosted people in public. Football is a bit of a religion where I live but your husband sounds like he's completely obsessed (to put it mildly).AITA For Refusing To Let My Sister And Her Husband Stay In Mine And My Husband's Vaction Home. admin May 3, 2024 AITA. : ob_end_flush (): Failed to send buffer of zlib output compression (0) in on line.My husband's high school best mate's Mum came just to see the wedding- husband did not have a great home life when he was a kid and he spent a lot of time at her house instead. We asked her to come along to the reception (it was a buffet at a bowls club, lots of tables and no assigned seating, one extra wouldn't hurt) but she politely declined.Because of this my husband convinced himself I make them with "fake" milk/butter/whatever, and says they taste "off," when I'm literally just following package directions and making the standard Ghirardelli dark chocolate brownies from the box. People really do get in their heads about this ish.Apparently he did tell her what it was about before the meeting: to stop having the friends over so much. Here is one thing I have learned with my wife, and other's in my life. If I give them reasons why, they argue back to tell me why my reason is invalid or what they can do to overcome my argument. No matter what reason I give, it is not enough.I wanted her to agree to ground our daughter from social media and make her get a job to pay for the damage. We argued for hours until she said I don't get a say in any punishment because I'm not her father. That ended the argument and I walked off. Since then I've checked out of any parental duties.ETA again: he signed a pre-nup. I owned the house long before we started dating. I withdrew MY $23k from the bank and put it in my personal. I already spoke to an attorney and I'm in the clear to do so because I have a paper trail on what was mine vs what was his. I'm an accountant. Numbers and money is kind of my specialty.My relationship with my step-mom drastically improved once my aunt blew up at her and my dad to stop trying to force a motherly relationship because I still have my mom and them forcing it wasn’t going to do anything but push me away. I was 14 then. I’m 29 now and we have an amazing relationship. She’s this weird blend of aunt/mom and whenever I get …It's my medical event. It's my body. It's my delivery/birth journey. Me, me, me, me, me. I, I, I, I, I. It's all about me—the pregnant woman and anything I say goes even though I didn't make this baby on my own and will damn well insist that the other (male) parent provide 50% of the care (emotional, financial, etc.)AITA for telling my husband to stop spending so much money on his dead girlfriend’s younger sister? I (28F) have been with my husband (34M) for almost a decade. We have three children (6F, 3M, 2F) together, and we are currently expecting our fourth child. He is an amazing father to our kids and I couldn't ask for a better husband. He also has .... NTA. I am mad for you. What a shitty bunch of in-If you were a good partner, you'd sup My wife is a lawyer. Now I love my wife and she loves me (obviously) but her family hatess me. Like from the depths of their souls, hates me. I've been called a gold-digger, a low-life and a few more vague insults on my table-manners. I went to a 'party' with her the other day, one of those fancy shmancy things where everyone drinks cHaMpAgNe ...AITA for telling my husband his “fragile masculinity” is costing us money? Back in late 2021, my husband Craig (M46) and I (F44) welcomed our fourth child into the world. As a result, we needed to upgrade one of our cars to something larger. We decided to trade in my super reliable Toyota RAV4 for something bigger since I was the one who ... A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, a Paying off debt, increasing savings, reducing taxes, investing for the future—with so many different money management goals to work on, it can be hard knowing where to focus your e...A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. 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