ADMIN MOD. AITA for not changing the theme so my niece can attend my bachelorette party? Not the A-hole. I (29) have 2 older sisters (K & N), both in their 30s, both married with kids. I love my nieces and nephews to bits and they're all going to be apart of my wedding in some form, with my 13 year old niece (N's oldest) is a junior ...There will be other children at this party, around 20 of them ranging from 11 down to newborn. My nieces invited me, and then my sister changed dates, so it's no longer on my kid free weekend. She then contacted me saying "you will have to get a babysitter for those 2." My other children are invited (19/13/6yo).Should volunteer coaches have liability insurance? Visit HowStuffWorks to learn about coaches and liability insurance. Advertisement So, your niece's after-school soccer team needs...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I was an asshole for trying to play a bad joke on my niece, and making her cry in the process and hurting her feelings.Her parents, my sister and her boyfriend, went to jail for drug abuse, and I stepped in to take care of her. Over the years, I've grown incredibly close to her I even adopted her 3 years ago, and she sees me as her dad. Recently, my sister was released from prison and expressed a desire to regain custody of my niece. My parents are supporting ...ADMIN MOD. AITAA for taking my niece to court over a coat? Not the A-hole. I (28F) have a niece (16F). She is my only sister's only child. 2 years ago I married a very wealthy man (34M), and because of the pandemic, last Christmas was my first with my in-laws. My MIL gifted me a coat that is worth more than $20k (I saw her wearing it, asked her ...NTA. You have learned that you can not rely on your parents for emotional or financial support. That is unfortunate bad news but it is better to realize it so you can heal from it. You need to learn that it is not your fault and that you deserve better. Healing is about learning that you are not the one who is broken.ADMIN MOD. AITA for expecting my wife to support my elderly parents. Asshole. My wife has a high-paying job and earns significantly more than I do. I work as a teacher and make around 40k, while she works in the private sector and makes £300-400k after tax. We split our finances equitably, with her paying 70% to my 30%.[Reddit AITA] AITA For Admitting That My Parents And My Neice Is The Reason Why I Left? Reddit Again - AITA. 194 subscribers. 608. 29K views 2 years ago …It's a freaking ice cream cone. I'm sure you've been bribed with things much worse than that as a kid. And if you were that worried about it, you could have just taken her to the ice cream shop after school and gotten her a cone then. I'm sure that would have made the separation anxiety a little easier. 3.After my niece "Claire" (19f) was born I was so happy to take her home but after three months my sister said that she and the father got back together and wanted their daughter back. Things did not go down well and since she was the biological mother, legally, she had every right to change her mind and our parents were on her side.YTA- I don't think it was your responsibility to tell your niece that. YTA, as a teacher at a K-8 school, there are still many students that are 10 and believe. I understand you wanting her to know the truth, but there were many other more appropriate ways that you could have gone about it. ESH.AITA for admitting that my parents and niece what are the reason that I left? “I (29 m) have a niece (19f), and as the title says, she and my parents are a massive reason why I moved away. When she was a little kid, she was unbelievably disrespectful, and just downright mean.Original-Leading-324. AITA For Telling My Niece The Family Secret? Not the A-hole. Throwaway Account. I (35f) had two older sisters growing up "Jane" and "Kim." Kim got sick and died but not before giving birth to my niece "Laura" (18f). It had been a year after Kim's passing when Jane and Laura's dad "Tom" (42m) confessed to dating and were ...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.My niece (16F) has been working for a year and saving so that she can buy a car when she gets her P's. She does driving lessons every chance she gets as well as drives with family members when ever possible. When she started working she opened a bank account and had her mother on the account (39F).348K views, 2.1K likes, 45 loves, 1.9K comments, 95 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Reddit Craziness: AITA for telling my niece why I kept a distance...My(32f) brother Nate (49) married his first wife and had my oldest niece Zoe (24f). Nate cheated on Zoe's mom when Zoe was 6 and they divorced. Zoe's mom took her to another city and Zoe would come to us for summer vacation. Nate moved his girlfriend in after the divorce and they had Kim (17f). I have always sent Zoe Christmas and birthday ...That’s why many partners wouldn’t change a thing about their loved ones. But they can’t stop the latter from doing it themselves. This redditor couldn’t stop his wife from undergoing plastic surgery, even though he was against it; and for a reason. After the surgery, the man was no longer attracted to his wife, which led to not only an upset …A bride has gone viral after admitting that she asked her photographer to edit her niece's dress — which was white — in her wedding party photos. "So I (30f) got married, yay!She said her family was now the family of the man her mom married. After that, I decided to distance myself and focus on my education. A few days ago, my niece called me for assistance because her mom couldn't afford to pay for her college education. Her new "dad" is in prison, and her mom struggles to save money since she has to go visit him ...It's not really a need or anything but it's also not a bad thing necessarily. But kids can get a 40$ android tablet they don’t need a $300+ iPad. That's very true. I think there's a lot of potentially misplaced judgment on here sometimes for parents who give kids electronics, but you're absolutely right.Confident-Fennel-493. ADMIN. AITA for paying my niece and nephew to behave while I babysit them? Not the A-hole. I (24F) have been babysitting my niece (6) and nephew (8) for the past few weeks for free and it was supposed to be temporary and has dragged on longer than I was originally told.NTA. Your niece is so entitled. She expects you to host her wedding without even asking you first before telling everyone and then expects you to give up your whole house for it. Then expects whoever owns the land near you to just let her use without even asking.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I was an asshole for trying to play a bad joke on my niece, and making her cry in the process and hurting her feelings.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.ETA: Yes, this is a normal expense for parents BUT lower cost camps fill up FAST (our rec center camp is $200ish/wk per kid and fills up within a week of opening registration). If I had to last minute change summer plans at this point, I would be be spending closer to $350/wk per kid for full day camp.ThrowawayAuntyAuntie. AITA for not babysitting my niece's stepsister. Not the A-hole. I (29f) have a niece, Amy (12). My sister passed away 3 years ago and Amy stays with her dad, Rick (37), who remarried and has a stepdaughter, Kate (4). Amy gets along OK with her stepmom and Kate. My sister and I lost our parents quite a while back, so we ...My mother did pretty much the same with my little brother. Me, my sister, and one brother are each close in age. when my brother was born after my sister my mom was done. She then had an "opps" baby several years after. They totally changed when he was born. Did a 180 on parenting him compared to us. When we were bad we got out butts beat.MOD. Aita for admitting that my parents and niece what are the reason that I left. Not the A-hole. Throwaway. I (29 m) have a niece (19f), and as the title says, she and my parents are a massive reason why I moved away. When she was a little kid, she was unbelievably disrespectful, and just downright mean. She would literally scream, yell, if ...AITA for paying my niece 50$ for the birthday cake she made for my son's birthday? Not the A-hole. my 16 year old niece Judy is into bakery, she bakes plenty of sweets and cakes. Due to my brother and his wife's financial situation, Judy got dropped of cooking academy. She was heartbroken over this especially because she was on top of her class."AITA for favoring one niece over her twin and admitting to it when confronted?" Accurate-Tie9003. A bit of backstory: I , 39f, am a twin. Growing up, my sister who I'll call Tanha grew uncomfortable with being a twin. In a way I do get it, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt. Tanha married Jason, 42m, 20 years ago.MOD. AITA for calling my parents assholes for what they did to my birthday. Not the A-hole. I (21f) was one of those kids who was born on Christmas Day. Which I wouldn’t have minded at all if my parents treated this normally for example my friends boyfriend was also born on Christmas and he said his parents would do his birthday in the ...Refusing to respect someone's autonomy and identity always makes someone an asshole. Your son is lucky to have parents so willing to stand up for him. You're setting him up now to have the tools and confidence to deal with shitty people and come out okay on the other side. Reply reply. 4682458.AITA for moving out after my parents told me to give my space to my brother and his family? #redditstories #tldrstoryteller #storytime #askreddit...My parents, mostly my mother, accused me of being selfish and bringing up the fact I live in a house with 4 bedrooms. She suggested that I should turn one the bedrooms over for my niece. I told her that won't be happening as I don't want more children and do no want the responsibility of more kids. I suggested that they should give my niece up toADMIN MOD. AITA for asking if my niece will graduate? Not the A-hole. I have a rule for all of my nieces and nephews: if they graduate they get a gift from me. If they don't go to college, they get a $500 investment in their future. If they go to college, they get a laptop (or another tool useful to their future trade).AITA For going on a pre-planned and paid for vacation after my BF's father passed away My BF (30M) and I (28F) have been dating for 4 years and have been living together for the past 18-months. Our lease is up at the end of this month and we were hoping to have purchased a house by now, but that didn't happen.She always stayed here, in my mom's house, because my brother and his girlfriend were always busy at work. So she would stay here from monday to friday in the morning and afternoon. But then, when she was 1 year and a half old, my brother and his now wife were going to work as always, when they suffered a car crash, unfortunately they passed out.For the past couple weeks, on my weekends I've had to watch my niece and nephew, while I had my friend over, so we couldn't really hang out. My sister and mother asked, more of a demand, that I watch the kids, and I just want my whole weekend to myself, so I said no, and then my mom was immediately batching and trying to guilt trip me, like loudly scoffing and loudly saying she'll take time ...OP's cousin has on and off taken care her daughter (OP's niece) in between prison and disappearing. The niece is screwed up because her mum has been vacant and she's getting pushed between relatives. That's the easy road to why the niece is screwed up. Really the cousin is to blame for having a child she wasn't capable of looking after.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.My stepbrother had severe autism and had a rare form of cancer later in life. He was 58 yrs old when he died. My grandmother took care of him. She died a few years later at the age of 89. My step-dad had put him in an institution because that is what the doctors told him to do. My grandmother took it on herself, but she had help.ADMIN MOD. AITA for not telling my niece the protagonist dies in the final book? Not the A-hole. She (13) has been reading through a book series for some time now, ever since I bought her the first book as a birthday gift back in September. There are about 30 books ; it is a very long series. Anyways, she started reading the final book last week.AITA for Blocking My Parents After They Pressured Me to Give Up Custody of My Niece? I (25M) have been raising my niece since she was 1 year old. Her parents, my sister and her boyfriend, went to jail for drug abuse, and I stepped in to take care of her. Over the years, I've grown incredibly close to her I even adopted her 3 years ago, and she ...I 23m was repeatedly stuck playing the part of helper and babysitter on family outings. I had to move out of my parents' house because I kept being forced to help watch my three nephews. Last year we took a family vacation in summer to the coast. I rode along with my parents, and they paid for my hotel room.AITA for not taking my biological niece in? I am a mid 30's man who was adopted when I was young. Now my biological mom went on to have another child long after I was adopted and this situation concerns my biological half-sister, Kate (mid 20's) and her daughter, Lindsey (5-6ish). There was a messy situation a few years ago where Kate was ...if they send flying monkeys, gc lay out all the dirt, ss, finish and let know anybody coming for you, better offer to babysit and leave you the h alone. then block their ass. Refuse harder than you have ever refused anything before. Parents are obligated to take care of their own children.AITA for taking my parents assignment too literally and being too honest? Comments ...My birthday was within the last week (not specifying for safety reasons) and my parents told me to get dressed in something smart because we were going "somewhere special." I was super exited, because I thought that my family would finally acknowledge me on my birthday. After about a 20 minute drive, we reached this garden that my grandma ...He began with the inciting incident. "My (43-male) wife (41-female) recently had her brother and his wife pass away following an accident.". "My wife and her brother were not on good terms at the time of his passing due to an argument they had in august.". "My BIL/SIL left behind 2 children, our niece (9) and nephew (11).".I feel so proud that I have a dad like him. I mentioned that he is my hero — this is just the icing on the cake. He has always been my #1 supporter, and he told me when I came out as bi that he would always have my back. He kept that promise. My dad doesn’t know he’s internet famous, I still don’t know how to break it to him lol.For cutting my niece off college fund because of what she said about me. I'm just going to be direct and quick. I (M35) have 2 sisters that I'm close with, I also have a niece (Leah), Leah's 16 and after my ex wife decided to split up and divorce due to inferitility problems that lasted for 5 years. I started a college fund for Leah to help her ...throwaway6933772. •. I'm a person who believes in the existence of God, and from what I see in your description, 100% you're NTA. Your niece asked you a question, and you answered honestly. Not everyone believes in the existence of a supreme creator of the universe, that's why if you believe, it's called faith.As for my parents, they would have probably called abusive, I never really felt abused. However, after being told "it's my way or the high way" for the millionth time when I turned 18 I joined the Marines and choose the highway option. ... AITA for not caring if I meet my niece or nephew. I was going to post this on AITA, but a good ...If living there means you're obligated to buy their kids a car, obviously, they shouldn't be living there. Tell your parents that they are moving into your parents' house. Your parents can house them and buy them a car. If parents refuse, they are horrible parents for not helping family. 1.My aunt remained seated and my cousin asked me to calm down and drink some water but I grabbed my stuff and as I was getting ready, I told my sister she was getting 0 dollars for her dream wedding dress then I walked out. I heard louder commotion as I walked and my dad and cousin followed me outside trying to talk but I asked to be left alone.lob1943. AITA for threatening to uninvite my niece from Thanksgiving? Not the A-hole. I (40f) am hosting Thanksgiving for my family this year. We are having my brother (46m), his wife (46f) and their kids (14m, 13m and 11f), my sister (48f), her husband (48m) and their kids (15f and 12f) over. I live with my husband (40m) and our kids (11m, 10f ...And of course if not for all those who commented on my first post I probably would have told Mom the surgery date. Oh my goodness I am wonderful at procrastination. I finished typing this update on September 12th. Today is September 16th. I spoke with my mom on the phone again.I invited my parents and siblings to my wedding but I am not paying for them to attend unlike our other guests. I might be the asshole for pointing out that I am in fact behaving the way they raised me. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQADMIN MOD. AITA for only taking my nieces in and not their dad after my sister passed away? Not the A-hole. My F,33 sister F,36 passed away a month ago because of cancer. It's devastating and words can't express how we feel. Her husband struggled to pay off debts and has asked me and my husband to take him and my nieces age, 13 & 16 in for some ...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.Some of the highlights of this text message: -we are missing key milestones of their kids lives after missing their first child's 1st birthday (My wife and I were separated during COVID because I was in Canada and she was in USA, the birthday party fell on a weekend we were able to see each other for the first time in 6 months - I hadn't ...One in particular was rocking 100% lululemon clothes daily. All accessories were expensive. This kid asked their parents to pay for their friend's everything so the scholarship friend could partake. They obliged. The scholarship kid's parents felt very weird about it but they had a similar attitude to the grandparents in OOP's story.Discover a Collection of aita for admitting my parents and niece at Temu. From fashion to home decor, handmade crafts, beauty items, chic clothes, shoes, and more, brand new products you love are just a tap away.Background: I (31F) have been having problems with my older sister (36F) my entire life. She's never let me forget that I'm the "half-sister." Both of our parents are her biological parents whereas I am only biologically related to my mom. My dad is technically my stepfather but raised me my entire life. My sister I'll call "Lily."She said her family was now the family of the man her mom married. After that, I decided to distance myself and focus on my education. A few days ago, my niece called me for assistance because her mom couldn't afford to pay for her college education. Her new "dad" is in prison, and her mom struggles to save money since she has to go visit him ..."AITA for refusing to watch my nieces and nephew in an emergency?" My (29M) brother (35M) Jim, and his wife(Sue 32F) have three kids under the age of 7. Jim …I have a bunch of cousins from each of my parents' siblings that range all the way from a few months younger than me to 13 years younger than me, and each relationship is unique and was impacted by many factors such as my individual relationship with their parents, each cousin's personalities, their ages, how much time we spent together growing ...YTA. Your wife should have just as much a say in decisions regarding the niece as you do. That being said, time for all 3 of you to consult with sport professionals (not just some coach at some gym who sees potential): professionals who can give real insight into coming back from this type of injury, professionals who can evaluate her potential, etcQ&A. •. r/AmITheAsshole voting guide here. I promised my niece a senior trip, and she chose to use the trip to visit her dad (someone I disapprove of). When I found out, I refused to pay, which could make me an AH because she says my gift was coming with strings attached (she should be able to choose however to spend the money).AITA for not watching my niece or knowing how to take care of a toddler. Not the A-hole. I (25m) live in a rental house. I had a housemate but he decided to move when the lease was up. My sister (29f) recently brokeup with her boyfriend/father of her child. She moved in with me and pays her half. I made it clear that we are essentially roommates.AITA for not caring if I meet my niece or nephew. Personal Write In. I was going to post this on AITA, but a good friend of mine recommend I post here for a "sane" response, so here we go. Backstory. I (39M) and my sister (35F), whom we'll call K, were raised by some pretty boomerish parents. We didn't really fight as siblings, but we ...ADMIN MOD. AITA being pissed at what my wife said to our niece. Not the A-hole. My sister and bil were abusive parents to my niece, Charlotte. I always tried to protect her, but my wife and I were only able to get custody threw years ago. We adopted her, and she's a good kid at heart, but she still struggles a lot.by Throwawayfavoring. AITA for favoring one niece over my other nieces and nephews? I (25) F have a niece (6) from my older sister (32). I heard through the family vine my …. Hello, friends, and welcome to Daily Crunch, bringADMIN MOD. AITA for admitting that I don' I (17M) live with my parents and my younger siblings. We were very close until recently. My first mom died when I was 6 days old. She developed eclampsia in late stages of the pregnancy with me and she never recovered from it. A few weeks later my dad packed up and moved with me because he couldn't stay where they were planning a life together. What I did: refuse to help resolve an estran Kate moved in around two months back. She was fine, came home on time, let us know her whereabouts, no partying. The issue was with food. She had turned vegan. Normally I cook for my family. I cook just one meal for all. And we are all diary obsessed people. Milk for cereal, butter in pancakes, cheese in everything. My brother-in-law Jeremy and sister-in-law Violet di...
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