OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: My husband got upset at me for saying I won't be cooking anymore for him only and will be cooking food I think it's good. He doesn't feel guilty at all and he said I am not logical. Help keep the sub engaging!r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.My husband (29M) and I (30F) met in college, and have been together for 8 years, married for 2. Our relationship has always been solid, and progressive. My husband has never been much of a traditionalist despite growing up in a very stereotypical family (had 2 siblings and a stay at home mom, his dad worked).AITAH For not giving my husband my "escape money" when I saw that we were financially struggling. I 34F have recently ran into a situation with my husband 37M and am curious about if I am the AH here or not. So me and my husband have been tother for 8 years, married for 7.AITA for telling my husband I won't cook for him again if he chose to eat his coworker's meal over mine. Not the A-hole Hear me out. My husband (Jesse, 31) has been bringing home meals that his female coworker (Nelly) cook for him. Now I'm not the best cook and Jesse's made it clear but he still eats what I cook everyday. What I noticed with Nelly …AITA for telling my husband to stop spending so much money on his dead girlfriend’s younger sister? I (28F) have been with my husband (34M) for almost a decade. We have three children (6F, 3M, 2F) together, and we are currently expecting our fourth child. He is an amazing father to our kids and I couldn't ask for a better husband. He also has ...I told her and my husband she's not holding my daughter again until she stops disrespecting me. My husband was pissed but didn't say anything because he "gets it" and sees why it sketches me out but is still bothered that his mom is "alienated". I told him when she learns to respect me, she will get another opportunity. He agrees.I told him he shouldn't have taken money from my family for being guests at our house, but he corrected me saying it's his house and said that he'd bet my family had never got to attend a cookout at a house like this and that it was just $25 dollars but I disrespected him and went behind his back and took money that wasn't mine.HELL NO!!! You owe your husband's friend nothing!!!! Tell your husband that you not anyone's servant and they can get someone else to do it!!!GlumMushroom9804. ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my wife to return it all. Asshole. My pregnant wife (26f) and I (35m)are really struggling at the moment as I lost my job and my wife had to quit her job as she's suffering from hyperemesis gravidarum. We've used up our savings and currently are living off our credit cards but I've got a job ...My husband has always talked about having kids. We decided we were ready last year. After months of stress and no results, we went to a doctor and found out my husband is infertile. He's always deeply wanted to be a dad so this was a big deal to him. We took a few months to process - and he grieved the loss, understandably so. To my surprise ...Skm8315. ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my husband that my inheritance is mine to do what I want with it. Asshole. My parents are up in age, my mother is dying and my dad is ok but doesn't have too many years left. My parents have money and my siblings and I will get a healthy inheritance. My husband comes from a family that will leave this ...File for 50/50 custody instead of visitation rights. That should decrease the child supply payments also. He needs to write everything down in a notebook and date it. Every thing she asks for, everything he sends, every change of plans, every threat, every rule, etc.My husband suddenly started "recalling" what happened that night and basically started lying about driving me to the hospital, waiting and feeling stressed out and standing on his feet for so long without food or even water. I was confused I said no! none of this was true, none of this happened in fact, he was watching a game when I went into labor and I …r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.My husband wanted to get them a decent wedding gift and tried borrowing money from friends and neighbors but got turned down. He kept stressing out about it for weeks and just the other day (the wedding was days prior and the groom and bride are off to their honeymoon) I discovered that my jewelry set was gone. I freaked after my husband …My mother (42) will often use my (22F) debit card to deposit and use money since her account is over-drafted and she's yet to fix it. Last month, she lost it 2 times. Today, I had just got back home from a birthday party and went into my room to change into some PJs when I notice my keyboard on the floor and my debit card missing. Okay ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my husband to lose the entitled attitude and do shit for himself? Not the A-hole. Just recently my husband (31) was promoted to assistant manager of the warehouse. We both work on the ups of 50 hours a week. I am shift manager at a behavioral disorders facility.On the ride home I call my wife and suggest that I just bring my friends over to my house instead, that way I can help with the baby whenever she needs me to and I'll still get to hang out with my friends whenever I'm not needed by her. She says that she doesn't want people over, and we hang up. At this point I'm mad."AITA for telling my husband's cousin she shouldn't have thrown a gender reveal party?" Both me (29F) and my husband's cousin Lena (fake name; 27F) are pregnant. ... but she can't dictate what I do about mine. Lena is furious. She told my in-laws that I was kicking her out of my baby shower. I told everyone the truth, but many are still on her ...AITA for telling my family that they never cared about my birthday before why should it matter now? ... As a wise man once probably said, the shit-apple doesn't fall far from the shit-tree, Randy. ... except my SD wouldn't let my mom get a job because he wanted a house wife and the only money my mom received was child support from my dad, which ...Sounds like you are better off on your own I am sorry to hear he put his mother first, just a mummies boy I guess best to get out now or you wont know what she is up to behind your back.Also, he pointed out this might strain my relationship with his parents, a relationship that is not 100% harmonious (they only accepted my as his girlfriend 5 years after we got together, and once referred to me as "a bitch who only wants to get pregnant to steal our money"). This is indeed something that worries me.She messaged me the next day asking me why I lied to her about why I needed the money and the fact that I told her 2 different stories about why I needed MY money. Yes MY money not hers. Keep in mind she NEVER loaned me money to pay bills/rent/food/etc. She always had money that I had WON NOT money she was LOANING me.Extra money should be put aside for the kids, or whatever. NTA. For anyone crying "financial abuse", for threatening to stop paying for his ticket, no. Husband makes money and he decides to give it all to his family. It certainly seems like his family will find any and all excuses to make your money thiers.Mind you in the photo that was posted on MY birthday which was during the time that we weren't talking while he decided he was already wearing a black wedding band which was her toxic claim on him. Now to the cheater cheating on the cheater. A friend of mine reached out to me nearly a year later asking who my ex was dating.AITA for telling my husband he was wrong for sleeping at someone's house without telling me? AITA- Me (38F) and hubby (37M) have been married 4 years now. ... but he wasn't sure 100%. Also, money was low so he didn't think it would be affordable. The day he got the confirmation email of his new appointment at the embassy, he left in the ...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.Welcome to AITA Insights on YouTube! Immerse yourself in our world of engaging tales, challenging queries, and insightful commentaries.Story: AITA For Tellin...Whenever I ask my husband to talk to his sister about the money he loaned her, he would tell me to chill and change the topic immediately. When I corner him, he would tell me that it's a small amount and he won't lose his sleep over it, and ask me to drop the topic altogether. It got to a point where I felt I should step in and ask her myself ...The answer was always "I'll LEND it to you", so when my money comes, I give it back and we do that over and over. He's got a really good job, but he's terrible with money, which means he's broke very quickly. I keep telling him that it's not forever (I'm really looking for a job and can't wait to have one) but to be fair it ...Bride, 23, Slammed for Charging Guests $10 to Attend Utah Wedding and Posting Registry on Social Media. She went onto explain that her sister asked their parents for financial help, but they ...This can just be another way for the wife to get attention and be in the spotlight. Throwing herself on the sword so to speak. My mom has similar behaviors as OPs wife (narcissistic tendencies) and will do this when she feels there is more attention and reactions to gain from it. Sometimes taking it to the extremes.File for 50/50 custody instead of visitation rights. That should decrease the child supply payments also. He needs to write everything down in a notebook and date it. Every thing she asks for, everything he sends, every change of plans, every threat, every rule, etc.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my wife our daughter is more important than she is? Not the A-hole. Our daughter is turning 18 in October. She a great kid, always pulled straight A's, never in any type of trouble and she's very respectful. My wife recently decided to have a talk with her about adult responsibilities.AITA for telling my husband I don't care he might have a degenerative disease? ... Start talking about the plans you have for the life insurance money, I guess. And again, ... We must have the same husband. Mine also complained for a long time about his teeth but refused to see a dentist. Could have saved a lot of money and pain if they just ...Throwaway because my main is obviously me. So my husband (40)m and I (25)f share a bank account. There are three kids in the house including my newborn (I didn't take any maternity just kept working, I am also the baby's exclusive caregiver, he does stuff for older kids) A few pieces of information, I started a business about 5 years ago that ended up working out really well (don't worry ..."AITA for telling my husband's cousin she shouldn't have thrown a gender reveal party?" Both me (29F) and my husband's cousin Lena (fake name; 27F) are pregnant. ... but she can't dictate what I do about mine. Lena is furious. She told my in-laws that I was kicking her out of my baby shower. I told everyone the truth, but many are still on her ...My little sister was 12 when I got married and was definitely not interested in the flower girl position. 😄 At 12, many girls are at or near full adult height and do not want to be wearing the foofy little dress and doing a job meant for a little kid (though I can certainly imagine some outliers who would still have fun with it.)My kids have more time to study and do extracurriculars. They still have chores and they are still expected to clean up after themselves. My husband came to me last time I was home and said we should cut back on the service when I'm home. That I should be doing more housework. He thinks that we are wasting money.Just 6 months ago, the daughter asked for money for dental implants. I happily told my husband to be as generous as he can be since it's not always the case and she rarely ask for money. After that first time, she kept asking for more. One time it was grocery, next its day care bills, then phone bills.My ex and father to 2 of my kids is always promising them everything and rarely follows thru. It got to the point where now when their dad says something they hardly believe him and ask my husband to do it instead. My youngest doesn't even like to talk on the phone with him for more then 5 mins and she's only 4. But on their dads side of ...AITA for telling my MIL thats it’s not her money? Not the A-hole. Throwaway, I 33 (F) and my husband, Bill (34M) eloped the day after our college graduation. We had only been dating for about a year and a half then and I had only spoken to his family over the phone. We were young and dumb but this isn’t a decision I regret.UPDATE: AITA for kicking out my parents for never telling me about my half-sister. I want to thank everyone who said go talk to my parents. That's the first thing I did, I went to their place and I tried to talk to them. But it was frustrating and my mom got angry when I said I was going to reach out to my sister.So, Anyways! My husband and I took 2 weeks off work to go visit some places out of the country - tourism in other words. Thing is I was the one who saved up for and arranged for the trip (my husband was responsible for booking the tickets). My husband's mom wanted to come along and threw temper tantrums when I said no.I suggested he ask his Aunt for $160k, or list it on the market. My husband didn't inherit the house, he bought it from his grandparents for full appraisal value. He still owes $90k on the house. He is flat out refusing to renegotiate, and said I'm too money hungry. Last year my husband barely made $30k at work, so we could potentially get ...ADMIN MOD. UPDATE - AITA for telling my husband his "fragile masculinity" is costing us money? Previous Post. Craig and I were able to put the issue regarding the Mercedes behind us, and for the past week, we've been working towards finding a replacement. He was still leaning towards an SUV, and while I considered his opinion, it was ...AITA for telling my husband to stop spending so much money on his dead girlfriend’s younger sister? I (28F) have been with my husband (34M) for almost a decade. We have three children (6F, 3M, 2F) together, and we are currently expecting our fourth child. He is an amazing father to our kids and I couldn't ask for a better husband. He also has ...Because of this my husband convinced himself I make them with “fake” milk/butter/whatever, and says they taste “off,” when I’m literally just following package directions and making the standard Ghirardelli dark chocolate brownies from the box. People really do get in their heads about this ish.NTA. I am mad for you. What a shitty bunch of in-laws, and I include your husband in that. Your kid, HIS kid, THEIR grandkid depends on you for food, so besides being a major fuckwattle to you, they're hurting their own blood as well, for apparently no reason whatsoever. It's time for your husband to stand up for you.Not only did Ella help break up her family, she and the ex literally revealed they were planning on going full on parental alienation on her. Ella told OP her plans to become the main mom in the kids' eyes. So not only did they have an affair, but they wanted to ruin the relationship OP has with her kids.Eurasia Mining PLCShs News: This is the News-site for the company Eurasia Mining PLCShs on Markets Insider Indices Commodities Currencies StocksDefinitely not. How much your late wife left your children is between you and them. nta. but i feel like neither of you are. unless Nat wanted to take their money or something. I can see where she's coming from with being upset. so this feels like a nobody scenario. I feel like I could be upset in her place too.The biggest reason that we kept them separate at the beginning was I had a lot of debt (student loans). I worked 3 jobs over the course of a couple years and paid it all off ($57k). My husband did not contribute to paying off my debt. Totally fine, it was mine before we were married and not his responsibility.My mother (42) will often use my (22F) debit card to deposit and use money since her account is over-drafted and she's yet to fix it. Last month, she lost it 2 times. Today, I had just got back home from a birthday party and went into my room to change into some PJs when I notice my keyboard on the floor and my debit card missing. Okay ...The glass ceiling is sadly still alive and holding women down in modern society. Generally speaking, women are paid only 80% of what men are paid, even when the work is exactly the...AITA for telling my husband he should give me the jewellery he inherited from his grandmother. I (F32) have been with my husband (M33) for seven years. During this time, we've been fairly close. We don't have any kids, since I'm not a big fan of them, but he's always taken good care of me. Two weeks ago his grandmother died peacefully in her sleep.I think that's another good point/INFO. I'm curious if OP and her husband had a conversation about the effects a second job could have on their relationship, time-wise. One person being in super-work mode can make a huge difference. > it seems like OP's husband has a great big case of "what's mine is mine and what's yours is also mine.Ever since then my half sister has been asking questions about it and wondering why she never goes there, etc. My mom told her it was mine and she looked after it for me until I was an adult and she wanted the family to be safe. So then my half sister is asking when we're all going to go and why we don't ever stay there and how she wants to see it.. When me (f40) and my husband (m39) joined finances, mADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my husband he works for himse We all go through phases and pick up annoying habits, and sometimes we just need our loved ones to gently tell us if we've picked up a particularly egregious habit. Sometime in the last year, my husband has picked up a habit where he talks like a baby. At first it was funny, but passed into embarrassing, cringeworthy behavior quickly.A year later I start dating my now husband. His business started raking in a lot of profits soon after we met. After we married, I kept my friendship to Marie even though she wasn't part of the Santa Barbara scene. My husband retired my mom after we got married. He also funded my boutique business. However, he is someone who gets bored easily. AITA- Husband broke something of mine- I think he should pay When your husband tells you to calm down, maybe you should listen. Eek. Just saying that was painful. And I’m sure I just majorly violated girl code. Fudge. Well, I&r...Welcome to Reddit Reads, your ultimate destination for the best Reddit stories on YouTube! Today, we're bringing you an exciting collection of AITA stories (... Throwaway because my main is obviously me. So my husband (40)m and I...
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